The pretense before I can love again
Could there be value in resentment? Does there need to be a relization of pain and anguish to be able to contrast the need for love? Love absent lack seems muted and taken for granted. How can someone know they need something before they have any ground to understand that they are missing it, isn't that the concept on which the idea of "need" is planted in? Our lives in a glass dome of individuality, we create our own ideas of need and how we need to fulfill them. Our struggle is based in our own perception of our given lack of freedoms and the ways in which we can squirm and wiggle into our own level of freedom. Then people stand outside of the glass of our incubating selfish greenhouse and tell us their judgements on our struggles and goals. Ignoring that their own selfish lair in which they grew out of was an experience that made them who they are. It's easy to point out someones experience as trivial and uneccesary when it isn't yours. resentment at wh...